Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Giving is the Gift

I try my best to be a giving soul. Whether it be supporting my friends or to other people with gifts. I love the fact that you can give to someone and make them feel special. I do not always have the type of monetary expense for high priced things, but it doesn't matter. If you give something to someone it's from your heart and that truly is all that matters. The last two years I have organized the Christmas functions at my office. Last year after much thought whether to have a function at the office where we exchange gifts, I decided that even though I bitch and moan about my lack of salary in most cases we all do, I felt it was necessary to give back. After speaking to one of the girls in the office about my idea of the Angel Tree, she shared with me the joys of actually working for the organization; how it worked and it was a dunzo deal.

Last year, we gave to a lucky boy and girl the ages of six. This year it was the ages of seven. Researching which children to pick is heart breaking and you wouldn't believe how many children all over just your own state may not even get a Christmas present. The one thing that broke my heart is reading about how some of these children just wanted blankets for their beds. I wept. Here I set in my home with all my troubles that surround me, yet it seems so trivial to the outside world. Yes, I am still probably going to continue to be all funkified until I go through my stages of why, what for and how come? Yet, I think about it and these children do the same only in a different way. We believe in a tradition that if you are good Santa will come. These children believe it and yet may not receive it and then they wonder what did I do? To think that some of these children just wished for warmth like a coat or a blanket. Identified only by ID numbers and a first name. I can't imagine. Can you?

So, with all my heart I am not only pleased to organize such a simple task, but my co-workers helped and this year, we sent a box full of toys, coloring books, crayons, note pads, clothes and yes, coats for each child. I have a son. I know that I will always go without whether it be food, clothing or fun to see him provided for and the one lesson I teach him is that there are children his age that don't have what he has, so he is never to judge and to always share. That was proven this year when a child in his class didn't have money to buy a book at the book fair and The Kid spent his money to do so. I am most proud of that.

Santa will come this year for Janee and Corey. I only wish I could see their faces as they open their gifts. I only wish that their days become easier. I only wish that they to grow up and become Angel Tree donors and give back to an organization that helped them. I only wish them love and peace in their hearts. I only wish that their past doesn't dictate their future and they grow into beautiful adults. I only wish they be children with no worries just laughter. My wish is to always feel that all of us keep giving in some way. As a blogging community, we offer giveaways, free stuff and we sign up and take our chances at winning. How about reverse that and if you win give your gifts to someone who may need them. A struggling mother who may need a beautiful necklace for a job interview. A gift card to a deserving family who many need food on their tables or buy their own children just the necessities such as school supplies or pajamas. While I am not the most famous blogger on the internet but this is why I have a hard time participating in these things because I feel I am not worthy when I know there are other people that probably deserve it more than myself. I know all you bloggers out there just went, Dusty is twacked! It's free stuff dude! But it's true and I have said it to more than one of my blogging friends. 

Thank you to my co-workers for participating. Thank you to the Salvation Army Angel Tree Organization and thank you to these two awesome children. You have no idea who we are, but we wish you a Merry Christmas.

 and yes the damn tree is leaning

Happy Tuesday, make someone's day would ya for me!
Dusty

22 comments:

  1. this is so sweet Dusty, I would expect nothing less.

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  2. I love this post Dusty, you have such a kind heart and it's a wonderful thing for you and your co-workers to do, you are going to make those children's Christmases special.. Before I lived in London the town I used to live in had a "Derek's Tree" it was a tree in the local shopping centre which was covered with children's name, age and what they wanted for Christmas and for the four Christmas's I lived there I participated, I used to go each weekend and choose a child, each year I bought for at least four children, sometimes more, I think every child should have something to open on Christmas day and i used to love shopping for these gifts. When I worked at the therapeutic community I worked over Christmas one year, we had two boys in the house where I worked that had no where to go over Christmas and when it came to Christmas morning I had to go and wake them up mid morning, both boys had had such bad experiences of christmas in the past that they didn't want to get up, it was heartbreaking, kids should be up at the crack of dawn on Christmas day full of excitement and sine then ive always tried to donate to children on christmas, however since I've been in London I've been trying to find a Christmas tree type charity, I thought there would be loads but so far I have found none and nowhere to donate toys, so I did a food donation instead this year. Anyways, this has turned in to a very long comment, sorry!

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  3. OMG...I'm sitting here all teary eyed! This was the most beautiful post I've read in a really long time. What a wonderful thing you and your co-workers have done. My heart breaks for all of the children that don't even have the basic necessities...it truly grieves. :( No child should have to live this way and no child should have to wake up on Christmas morning to nothing. :( I have donated and helped in the past and I have been busy scurrying around to find gifts for the people on my list - you have inspired me to give to a needy child who isn't on my list this year. :) What a wonderful thing you and your co-workers have done!

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  4. I tried to do something like this a few years ago and got shut down. You have such a kind heart Dusty girl.

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  5. You have such a big heart (to match your booty - kidding, kidding!)! I love ya girl!

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  6. this is why I love you....you are giving and loving for the joy and glory of others...Janee and Cory are so lucky that you have organized this and even though you won't see their faces, I am sure you can imagine how grateful they will be!

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  7. I love your heart Dusty! This is so wonderful. <3

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  8. Dusty, you are such an amazing woman. You have such a huge heart! I am sure the two little kids will be SO happy when they open their presents. And your son, buying the book for his classmate... that is amazing. And it just proves how wonderful of a momma you are. :)

    xo, Yi-chia

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  9. So sweet, Dusty! My most favorite organization to donate to is Project Night Night. They put together "bedtime" packages for homeless kids with books, blankets, and stuffed animals. Security blankets are so important to little ones!

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  10. You are by far one of the sweetest most CARING people I know. and that's why I love you - well one of the reasons at least.
    xx

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  11. This is the sweetest thing ever!!!! Such a big heart!!

    Oh, and I hate fried pickles today. And I thought of you. Lol!! ;)

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  12. I spy hello kitty! Love your kind heart Dusty, you are amazing! We always donate to toys for tots cuz that's a military charity too but I haven't gotten around to it yet. I know toys r us is doing a big bogo sale so I better get on it!

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  13. Dusty, your heart is so big and so kind. I admire you and your willingness to look past your own heartache and still see and KNOW that there is good in the world. You are amazing. And that kiddo of yours...following his momma's footsteps, for sure. I love you!!!

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  14. Dusty you are such an amazing person!!! You have a huge heart and it is so clear how much you love doing for others. I wish there were more people like you in this world.

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  15. Giving is certainly to most precious gift one can give - to themselves. I love that it is anonymous, the entire concept renews my faith in mankind.

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  16. I LOVE your blog & now I LOVE you even more! How awesome! I wish I could do something wonderful for you

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  17. You've got the right idea......leaning tree or not. Giving is truly the gift that keeps on giving.

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  18. I love this! I do stuff like this every year, too. :)

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  19. This is so amazing! It is probably going to be the best Christmas EVER for those two sweet kids! Tis the season for giving!

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  20. my office does a lot at christmas (and year round) to give back to the community. My brother's girlfriend works with under privileged youth and it never fails to amaze me when she tells me about the things we take for granted (blankets, tooth brushes etc) that some kids don't have. It's crazy when you think of how much wealth our countries have.

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  21. On a day when someone in our nation harmed such innocent children, and I feel so lost in a grief that really doesn't affect my life greatly, I read this and realize there is so much good, so much.

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  22. We do Christmas Angels too. It really is so heartbreaking, but I love doing it and it puts my life into perspective.

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